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How to Avoid an Argumentative Person

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Dealing with an argumentative person can be challenging, but there are a few strategies you can use to avoid getting into arguments with them:

1. Don't engage: The best way to avoid an argumentative person is to simply not engage with them. If you sense that a conversation is heading towards an argument, try to change the subject or politely excuse yourself from the conversation.

2. Stay calm: If you do find yourself in a conversation with an argumentative person, try to stay calm and level-headed. Don't get defensive or escalate the situation by raising your voice or using aggressive body language.

3. Listen actively: When you are having a conversation with an argumentative person, listen actively to what they are saying. Try to understand their perspective and why they feel strongly about the issue.

4. Empathize: If you can, try to empathize with the other person's point of view. Even if you don't agree with them, acknowledging their feelings can help de-escalate the situation.

5. Set boundaries: If the other person continues to be argumentative despite your efforts to avoid conflict, it may be necessary to set boundaries. Let them know that you are not comfortable with arguing and that you would prefer to discuss things in a calm and respectful manner.

Remember, you can't control the other person's behavior, but you can control your own. By staying calm, empathetic, and setting boundaries, you can avoid getting drawn into arguments with an argumentative person.