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=== Assistant: Good question 🌱. ===
Good question 🌱. What you’re describing is actually a psychological and biological response. Here’s why it happens:
# The Law of Contrast – When you don’t have something and you see someone else with it, your brain naturally pays attention. It feels like a “missing piece” for you, so you’re drawn toward it.
# Biological Drive – Humans evolved to be attracted to what they lack. For example: - If you feel lonely, you’re drawn to people who look social. - If you lack discipline, you admire or feel attracted to someone focused. - If you lack freedom, you’re drawn to someone living freely.
# Projection – Sometimes you’re not attracted to the person, but to the quality they show. Your mind projects that quality as something you want for yourself.
# Teenage Psychology – At this stage, attraction is often about identity-building. You look at others and feel: “I want that energy in my life.” The attraction is not always romantic — it’s sometimes your brain saying: “This is a direction for growth.”

✨ So the short answer:
You feel attraction when you see something you don’t have because your brain is signaling — this is valuable, pay attention to it.

Do you want me to show you how to use this attraction energy as fuel for your own growth instead of letting it distract you?