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=== User: If it's time/attention... ===
If it's time/attention... then their lack of care while not having the time or attention shows us that they are there selfishly in low effort for the overall discourse. There's a bit of overlap that can't be untangled and you're jumping to conclusions by saying "it can just be one thing." If they aren't there to communicate fairly, they are there defending. Skill is a Dunning-Kruger issue and is highly overlapping with all the others when they want to believe they're more aware, smart, and wise (and by extension, good) than they actually are. If it was only values mismatch, it wouldn't have come to everything else that was pointed out, showing that it was unconscious pride taken in first assumed fallible beliefs and the resistance against their changing due to the self-correcting pains that would introduce and are being avoided. If they weren't interested, they wouldn't be putting any effort in at all, and since they were putting effort in, they had interest in only what required low effort rather than provided the high effort a productive conversation would require.